Wow, lotta nature verbs today.
The first thing I did, as Emily of SDD suggests, is take every single item of clothing out of my closet
|I left outerwear for another day.|
I've heard the first step is to get rid of clothes I don't wear, but that was only a few items. I manage to rotate through the bulk of them by not doing laundry very often. I'd rather not do that, though. I'd rather have less stuff and care for it in small, frequent bursts, than have to spend all day doing laundry once a month because so much has piled up.
I set out looking for quantifiers, some numbers to define how much I should have. I sensed in my use of "should" that I wouldn't get the answer I wanted. Sure enough, most research and responses from friends and co-declutterers were, "Whatever works for you is what's right!" Shoulds are always trouble.
So frustrating, right? I wanted hard data! 3 pajama outfits, 4 dressy casual outfits, that kind of thing. The one article I found that counted outfits proved why it's a useless exercise: her numbers didn't apply to me at all. I don't need a set of church clothes, and a no sweatpants rule? Preposterous.
In the end, everybody was right about "what works for me" blah blah blah. (Just kidding about the angst, mostly.)
|Tyrone slept in the keep pile AND the declutter pile. Mixed messages.|
Here's what I kept:
6 casual bottoms (2 pairs of jeans, 2 capri pants, 1 skirt, 1 pair of shorts).
3 sweatpants (2 pants, 1 shorts). Notice this number is not zero, because I'm normal.
3 nightgowns/nightshirts, whatever you wanna call them.
11 t-shirts. I have a feeling this number will shrink by Day 30.
9 dressy casual tops.
2 business formal tops.
2 formal skirts.
3 formal dresses.
6 dressy casual dresses.
Total: 48 items in wardrobe. Not exactly minimalist, but a good start, I think! Pro tip: If you do this, remember to count the clothes you're wearing.
Here's what I decluttered:
6 sweats, PJs, workout pants.
1 pair of jeans.
6 dressy casual tops.
3 workout tops.
1 short-sleeved cardigan.
Total: 25 items decluttered.
3 dressy casual tops.
Total: 5 items whose fate is undecided. I'm going to tuck them away until the end of the month and see if I miss them.
I also decluttered yet another magazine and yet another stack of papers, bringing my total to 27. But we'll call it 26, because close enough.
How did I decide what goes?
-If everything's clean, I don't choose it first. These are the items I settle on when the stuff I really like is dirty.
-It has holes or is threadbare.
-It's frumpy or doesn't bring me joy.
-It doesn't fit well.
I think I was still quantifying a little as I went through the piles, but there was no rule about it. I thought of it like, "Something to wear, something to wash." How many of this type of item do I need until the next wash cycle? I wear the same nightgown every night for a week, or at least close to a week, so three might actually be generous. Same with sweatpants, which I wear in the evenings. Just those two categories helped me clear out a lot.
It's true what the bloggers and my friends say, though: It's all about what works for you. Sigh.